Pioneers of St. Clair County, Michigan - Person Sheet
Pioneers of St. Clair County, Michigan - Person Sheet
NameMary Lillian HAY
Birth29 Sep 1852, Oneco, Stephenson, Illinois2147, p 1; year only,2023, p 1,2053
Death21 Jul 1894, Seville, Medina, Ohio23, p G26; year & place only,2023, p 1,2057,2148 Age: 41
BurialMound Hill Cemetery, Seville, Medina, Ohio2147, p 1
NicknameLillie; Lily36, p 13,23, p G26,2149
FatherJonathan HAY (1830-1899)
MotherElizabeth B. O’BRIEN (1831-1906)
Individual Notes
• She secured a divorce from Spitzer [He was a rotter] along about 1880, and in the Autumn of 1881 was married to Charles Marshall.2150

• Aunt Lib’s Lilly, married John Marshall – came home to her mother heartbroken – died, leaving a little girl – and boy, John, who is now in San Francisco. The little girl died at four – a great grief for Aunt Lib.36, p 2, line 59

• ...Aunt Lib’s daughter Lily who died leaving John [Marshall] and a beautiful little girl. This girl lived with Aunt Lib, died and was a terrible sorrow for Aunt Lib.36, p 10, lines 429-430

• “a little girl who lived with her grandmother”23, p G26

•Lillian Hay Marshall died of the grippe, and was not a suicide.2026
Census
• 1860 Census: Oneco, Stephenson, Illinois. Age 7, b IL.2066
• 1870 Census: Freeport, Stephenson, Illinois. Age 17, b IL.2067
• 1880 Census: Cleveland, Cuyahoga, Ohio. Age 27, b IL. Married. Father b OH; mother b VT. Listed as Mary L. Spitzer. Boarder in household of Clara A. Emmerson. Listed with Johnathan F. Hayes, age 67, b NH.2151
• 1887 Washington Territory Census: Spokane, Spokane, Washington. Age 33, b IL.2152
Research
• Why is she listed in the 1880 census of Cleveland living in the same boarding house as Jonathan F. Hayes, age 67, b NH? Probable family relationship of some sort.
Spouses
Birth2 Nov 1849, Batavia, Genesee, New York2153
Death18 Feb 1919, Los Angeles, Los Angeles, California2154, date only,2155 Age: 69
BurialWoodlawn Cemetery, Toledo, Lucas, Ohio2154
Occupationbanker2153
Residenceof Seville, Medina County, Ohio2149
FlagsEldest Son
FatherAaron Bovee SPITZER (1823-)
MotherLaura Maria PERKINS (1826-)
Individual Notes
• [excerpts] Ceilan Milo Spitzer was educated in the schools of Medina, O., whither his family had removed in 1851, and at Oberlin College. He entered upon his active business career in 1869 by purchasing a half interest in a drug store at Seville, O., which he sold out two years later, and with his father opened the Seville Exchange Bank under the style of C. M. Spitzer & Co., a banking house which obtained immediate standing and reputation in the financial world. In 1877 a branch bank was opened at Medina, O., and in 1878 the German-American Bank of Cleveland, O., was organized, the last enterprise growing in such immediate favor that Mr. Spitzer purchased the interest of Ludwig Wideman, who had become partner in 1878, and during the next two years conducted a general banking and investment business. In January, 1880, owing to financial depression, the bank failed and soon after settled with its creditors on a forty per cent. basis. Ten years later, however, quite without legal or moral necessity, Mr. Spitzer paid all the bank’s debts in full, an act which has deservedly given him a high reputation in the business world.2153, pp 376-7

• In January, 1900, Gov. George K. Nash appointed him quartermaster-general of Ohio, with rank of brigadier-general.2153, p 277

• Ceilan Milo Spitzer, co-founder of Spitzer, Rorick & Company, was a prominent merchant and banker who contributed to the material development of Northwest Ohio.
Spitzer & Company became a very successful business. They were the first company west of New York City to engage in the buying and selling of bonds. It was known as “the father of the municipal bond business in the middle west.”2154

• “he was a notter.”2150

• She [my mother] also said that Aunt Ada got Spitzer his job – he was Lillian's first husband - "the rotter"; she has a photo of him and he looks "like a weasle." Dad told her that Spitzer would send the Hay boys his worn out socks, and that Grandmother Hay (Alice Hay) would darn them and the boys would wear them.2080

• The weirdest thing that happened was on my first night out. Using the navigator system in my Prius, I searched for motels and up pops "C. Spitzer Bed and Breakfast" in Medina. Yes, yes! It was Ceilan Milo Spitzer's home. The proprietress put me in Lillian's room, but it was Lillian the trophy wife and not Lillie Hay, the first wife. The house was built in 1890, and must have been a real slap in the face of Lillie Hay, when she came home dragging her tail and two kids, to go live with Elizabeth Hay in Seville, just down the road. The house is an elaborate stick Victorian, and is known to be haunted (probably by Elizabeth and Lillie!) The owner knew nothing about the first wife and said she had done extensive research and never saw any mention of a first wife.2026
Census
• 1870 Census: Fairfield, Lenawee, Michigan. Age 20, b NY. Chem. maker.2156
• 1880 Census: Cleveland, Cuyahoga, Ohio. Age 30, b NY. Bookkeeper. Parents b NY. Listed as Bufod M. Spitzer. Boarder in household of Clara A. Emmerson.2151
• 1900 Census: Toledo, Lucas, Ohio. Age 50, b Nov 1849, NY. Banker. Parents b NY. 5 servants in household.2157
Marriage10 Jul 1873, Freeport, Stephenson, Illinois2149, place only,2158,2159,2150, gives 9 Jul 1873
Marr Memoat the residence of Jonathan Hay, Esq.
Divorce18802150
Birthabt 1849, Ohio2024,2152
Deathaft 21 Dec 1898539, p 5 Age: 49
FatherHenry C. MARSHALL (~1824-)
MotherLouisa S. (~1829-)
Individual Notes
• I got a letter from Charlie Marshall. He sent $2.00 and wanted to know if John could not get a job in some store here to help himself. The Phool. He wants John to cheer up. He, too, knows what it is to go without clothes & money – said he would send some every week.539, p 5
Census
• 1860 Census: Brooklyn, Cuyahoga, Ohio. Age 10, b NY.2160
• 1870 Census: Brooklyn, Cuyahoga, Ohio. Age 20, b NY.2161
• 1887 Washington Territory Census: Spokane, Spokane, Washington. Age 38, b OH. Gardener. Listed as Chas. L. Marshall.2152
Marriage Notes
• Gives name of John Marshall.36, p 2, line 59
ChildrenJohn Turner (1883-1952)
 Louise (Died as Child) (1891-1896)
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